Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Marriage. Show all posts

Saturday, September 13, 2008

THE SHOEBOX


A man and woman had been married for more than 60 years. They had shared everything. They had talked about everything. They had kept no secrets from each other except that the little old woman had a shoe box in the top of her closet that she had cautioned her husband never to open or ask her about it.

For all of these years, he had never thought about the box, but one day the little old woman got very sick and the doctor said she would not recover.

In trying to sort out their affairs, the little old man took down the shoe box and took it to his wife's bedside.

She agreed that it was time that he should know what was in the box. When he opened it, he found two crocheted dolls and a stack of money totaling $95,000.

He asked her about the contents.

"When we were to be married," she said, "my grandmother told me the secret of a happy marriage was to never argue. She told me that if I ever got angry with you, I should just keep quiet and crochet a doll."

The little old man was so moved; he had to fight back tears.

Only two precious dolls were in the box. She had only been angry with him two times in all those years of living and loving. He almost burst with happiness.

"Honey," he said, "that explains the doll, but what about all of this money? Where did it come from?"

"Oh," she said, "that's the money I made from selling the dolls."

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Prevalance of annulments


This is old news (2007), but we were talking about this kind of thing over lunch so I wanted to blog it...

Vatican reverses Kennedy ruling - The Boston Globe: "According to Vatican statistics, of 56,236 hearings for an annulment that took place in 2002, 46,092 were approved, 30,968 in North America.

Robert Vasoli, a retired sociology professor at the University of Notre Dame who has done extensive research on the annulment process, wrote that in 1991 the United States accounted for 80 percent of the annulments granted by the church worldwide. Between 1982 and 1984, the Vatican overturned nearly 80 percent of the American annulments it reviewed, he wrote."

Tuesday, June 10, 2008

California county clerk to cut marriage ceremonies in wake of same-sex marriage decision


California county clerk to cut marriage ceremonies in wake of same-sex marriage decision: "Bakersfield, CA, Jun 10, 2008 / 03:20 am (CNA).- The county clerk of Kern County, California has announced that her office will perform no civil marriages at all because of the state Supreme Court’s decision not to stay its mandate legalizing same-sex marriages."

She considered resigning, but when she found out she wasn't legally obligated to do what she didn't believe in, she decided to make a stand. Way to go! Here's a link if you want to send her your thoughts.

Wednesday, October 05, 2005

"I love U!"...Leaving for Kansas

I love you too, Maddie!

The whole fan-damily is driving to Kansas tomorrow morning at 5am (which means we'll leave at 6am). We'll drive all day, arrive at about 4pm, and go to the wedding rehersal for my cousin, Kristinia. Dinner afterwards. Wedding the next day. Driving back Sunday.

M&M are the flower girls.

My brother, Kerry will be there.

Please pray for safe travel for us, and that my cousin's marriage will be joyful and life-long.

I set two alarms this morning to try and get up by 5am for a breakfast thing at 6am. Neither one woke me. I think I might re-sign up for www.iping.com.